Dating is an excruciating dance and lately it has begun to feel like Ground Hog Day , like the movie. Each dating experience, seem to be slightly different versions of the previous and I, seemingly trapped in an endless circle and not knowing how to change the script to make things different.

Often it feels like the script has been written already, and I am doomed to continue the dating cycle until I get it right.

there have been discoveries along the way like –

Just because you think you’re developing a relationship doesn’t mean they do!

Sex and feelings can be two different things

“I want you” Doesn’t mean they want you!

You may have a wonderful mind

You may have a beautiful heart

You may have a great arse and a hot bod but this does not mean you are a keeper.

Apparently.

Having faith in good things does not mean the world repays you.

I feel like Punxsutawny Phil (The Groundhog) ready to emerge and like Punxsutawny I am hoping for a cloudy day so that Spring will come early and good things and my keeper comes my way, rather than see my own shadow and have to retreat to my den (like Punxsutawny) and have Winter continue for six more weeks